cry a river, build a bridge

my good ol' buddy messaged me a quote that went something like this, "If someone you love hurt you, cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it." :) that made me smile, actually.
and in a way, that statement has a lot of truth in it. obviously we are not capable of getting over anything (or building anything for that matter) without the divine help of the One above... but the basic lesson of that statement is to eventually get over it. it's kinda like, so cry and whine and complain all you want, then do something about it, then everything should fall into place. it's a little harsh, but essentially, i think it's a pretty simple and to-the-point statement that we can directly apply to our lives in whatever way that it may apply...